Feelings follow behaviour

I’m afraid of feelings. I’m not going to lie. I hate talking about feelings. I hate feeling feelings and in fact, I tend to run away from feelings.

They just make you so vulnerable – especially when it comes to members of the opposite sex.

I learnt the hard way that running away or trying to avoid your feelings NEVER works out. Not so long ago I got myself into a bit of a situation and I behaved in a way which was completely out of character. I ignored what I was feeling. Not my smartest move. Behaving as if you have no feelings won’t make your feelings disappear. You’ll only end up having to deal with more complex and more painful feelings in the end.

Never ignore your feelings, let them all out. Take notice of your actions, they speak louder than your words. Take them as an early warning of the emotions to come.


It is better to practice a little than talk a lot.

Being a very talkative person, I understand how easy it is to get caught up in a fat conversation about what you plan on doing or what you want to do. However, in today’s day and age you may get left behind if you’re all about talk and not so much about action.

When you are able to talk the talk, as well as walk the walk – simultaneously, you will find quality in anything you put your efforts in to.

“Practice makes perfect” and “actions speak louder than words” so why stand around talking about what you want to do when you could actually just go ahead and do it?