I don’t think we are what we do. We all make mistakes, that’s what makes us human. I once stumbled across a saying somewhere “it takes a life time to build a reputation and a minute to lose It.”, that’s because people are judgmental – they will always judge you by your actions. This is unfair.
I live my life in the moment; I don’t always think things through. Sometimes I act out of anger, out of love and even out of plain stupidity; I just choose to see my mistakes as lessons.
You can’t judge someone’s whole character on ONE action or decision they make in life. You shouldn’t be judging at all. You don’t know their struggles; you don’t know what drives them.
Actions and intentions go hand-in-hand. We are who we are and ‘what we do’ just makes up but a small portion of that.
Forget what others think, do what you want to. Be spontaneous.